My guy friend said,
If you live far apart
And your heart
Tells you to move closer
And you suggest it,
He should totally
Support
The idea
Of moving forward.
He should say
How can
I help you.
He should put
All his resources
Together
For both of you
To live at his place
And also help you
Find work in his town.
But if he pushes back,
That's a big red flag.
First,
Pitch the idea,
And see what happens.
Girl friends say,
Beware.
Too many women
Have moved
Round the world
To find their guy
Had another woman
On the side
All the time.
Dating, Long Relationships, San Francisco
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I don't think I can agree with your guy friend, at least not without more info. I'd be reluctant to encourage a guy to move to my town on the basis of a newish or rediscovered passion. That would be a lot of responsibility for me to uproot the other person when there's no commitment of any sort yet.
Relationships progress in stages, and each stage should be savored. Maybe it's just me, but I'd want to enjoy the stage of longing, where you depend on travel, email, phone, and texting -- until neither of you can stand the separation. Then think about moving closer.
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